"Friendship" the most boosted n least found relationship in d world...
Some say friends r the ppl wid whom u can share ur joys n sorrows.. Some say one who is wid u when d world is against u is ur frnd...
Discussions on frndship never end... In colleges , in schools, in ur neighbourhood, u have so called friends all around...
But at times u realise u r completely alone....
Then can dat relationship u found all along ur ways be called friendship???
No!!!
That is d stage u start feeling true friendship is found only in stories, on in some other land of stars.. But definately a relation so pious, n so pure can not be found in the place like earth...
In todays world, some bury their hearts under the mud of competition,
Some while running wid time dont even realise where their little heart left behind while they were still busy in running,
Some are so busy in maintaining their status, in their showoff, that they dont even let their little heart to sprout up and to show up to them dat some sweet thing like it ever existed...
So ultimately we are left in the world having a majority of people wid no hearts to show up and still, we boast about something called " Friendship"......
Funny!!! isn't it???
No my people.... Roaming together... Eating together... Spending all balance talking to each other.... is not friendship....
Friendship's first pillar is Trust... Trust not only dat my friend will be wid me in all my sorrows n joys but also d trust dat my friend will be d first one to slap me when i do something wrong but still stand wid me against the world even when i m wrong...
It's second pillar is Love... Loving each other not only when together but also when away miles.. loving not only the good things about each other but also d funny things ur friend does...
It's third pillar is Togetherness... Not that u leave whole world for being together wid ur frnd.. Its just dat till u r alive ur friend should never feel alone. Meeting daily or talking daily may not be necessary but a simple "hi!!! or every thing fine buddy??" is enough to comfort ur friend that u r there for him or wid him...
It's most funny but very important pillar is Silliness ... Shocked??? but yes even silliness is very imp... Its not just u keep showing ur loyality affection truthfullness to ur friend all time and dat makes ur perfect friendship story complete but doing silly things is important .. It adds a flavor to d relationship.. May it be teasing ur friend wid some one's name, or mimicking him in a funny way or be it a quarreling wid him for some stupid reason .. all these thing strengthen ur bonds even more..
Another most imp pillar Transparency... yeah this is d most imp.. When i make a friend if i show my complete loyality to him, den i would expect d same wid him... Between friends there are no secrets..They have their common secrets.. be it of some fun .. be it of their workplace or be it of their other relations.. may the secrets be of joy or of sadness.. every thing must be shared wid ur friend.. For ur friend would always like to be ur first problem scavenger.. And so never snatch this opportunity from him..
Last but very important pillar is d Freedom... not only here but in any relationship.. there must be flexibility in ur relationship.. both of the friends should be given space to pursue their non overlapping interests wid full Independence... Insensible doubts or troubling obligations must not be imposed on each other.. In friendship, as popularly said, not only celebrate similaraties but also enjoy d difference...
When i start talking about friendship my pen refuses to stop but have to stop any ways...
My search for some such sweet friends usually brings some fadded faces infront of my eyes.. Who r definately not near me but about whom i can confidently say, would be near me any time i m in pain ... Thanks to all my such friends who made my life worth while...
Just departing wid a pray dat May people realise sweetness wid in them! Then there would be love all around..There would be true and loyal friends all around.. And no heart would die alone wid out a friend....
Some say friends r the ppl wid whom u can share ur joys n sorrows.. Some say one who is wid u when d world is against u is ur frnd...
Discussions on frndship never end... In colleges , in schools, in ur neighbourhood, u have so called friends all around...
But at times u realise u r completely alone....
Then can dat relationship u found all along ur ways be called friendship???
No!!!
That is d stage u start feeling true friendship is found only in stories, on in some other land of stars.. But definately a relation so pious, n so pure can not be found in the place like earth...
In todays world, some bury their hearts under the mud of competition,
Some while running wid time dont even realise where their little heart left behind while they were still busy in running,
Some are so busy in maintaining their status, in their showoff, that they dont even let their little heart to sprout up and to show up to them dat some sweet thing like it ever existed...
So ultimately we are left in the world having a majority of people wid no hearts to show up and still, we boast about something called " Friendship"......
Funny!!! isn't it???
No my people.... Roaming together... Eating together... Spending all balance talking to each other.... is not friendship....
Friendship's first pillar is Trust... Trust not only dat my friend will be wid me in all my sorrows n joys but also d trust dat my friend will be d first one to slap me when i do something wrong but still stand wid me against the world even when i m wrong...
It's second pillar is Love... Loving each other not only when together but also when away miles.. loving not only the good things about each other but also d funny things ur friend does...
It's third pillar is Togetherness... Not that u leave whole world for being together wid ur frnd.. Its just dat till u r alive ur friend should never feel alone. Meeting daily or talking daily may not be necessary but a simple "hi!!! or every thing fine buddy??" is enough to comfort ur friend that u r there for him or wid him...
It's most funny but very important pillar is Silliness ... Shocked??? but yes even silliness is very imp... Its not just u keep showing ur loyality affection truthfullness to ur friend all time and dat makes ur perfect friendship story complete but doing silly things is important .. It adds a flavor to d relationship.. May it be teasing ur friend wid some one's name, or mimicking him in a funny way or be it a quarreling wid him for some stupid reason .. all these thing strengthen ur bonds even more..
Another most imp pillar Transparency... yeah this is d most imp.. When i make a friend if i show my complete loyality to him, den i would expect d same wid him... Between friends there are no secrets..They have their common secrets.. be it of some fun .. be it of their workplace or be it of their other relations.. may the secrets be of joy or of sadness.. every thing must be shared wid ur friend.. For ur friend would always like to be ur first problem scavenger.. And so never snatch this opportunity from him..
Last but very important pillar is d Freedom... not only here but in any relationship.. there must be flexibility in ur relationship.. both of the friends should be given space to pursue their non overlapping interests wid full Independence... Insensible doubts or troubling obligations must not be imposed on each other.. In friendship, as popularly said, not only celebrate similaraties but also enjoy d difference...
When i start talking about friendship my pen refuses to stop but have to stop any ways...
My search for some such sweet friends usually brings some fadded faces infront of my eyes.. Who r definately not near me but about whom i can confidently say, would be near me any time i m in pain ... Thanks to all my such friends who made my life worth while...
Just departing wid a pray dat May people realise sweetness wid in them! Then there would be love all around..There would be true and loyal friends all around.. And no heart would die alone wid out a friend....
Hey..Its Simi again..
ReplyDeleteAfter reading your poem, I could not stop myself from reading your blog..
I must say you are not only a creative, intuitive and an excellent writer but also a sweet person by heart. Don't let this quality fade away.....
oye....!! Bhaggu that was really touching. U know I remembered each and every moment me spent together while reading these lines,specially those teasing and fighting moments...!! Couldn't help it...:D
ReplyDeleteBut I agree with these lines. Friendship is something which can't be described in a single line.
And I can assure you one thing....I'll be always there for you. Bole to ye apun ka promise h bidu...!!